I have two dogs and have had nothing but good experiences with Dayton South Veterinary Clinic and Poochie Bath for bathing/grooming.
Not a bad area to live at all. Typical Midwest climate: cold winters not too much snow; cool wet spring mild summer. Kettering Beavercreek Oakwood and Centerville are probably the best places to live unless you want to look farther out in Xenia or north of I-70.
Hardly any traffic except for I-75 at rush hour. I-675 is great.
Some specifics:
Recreation: lots of outdoors-y things to do. The city park system is very well organized. Get a copy of the "Parkways" magazine to find FREE classes ranging from toddler nature walks to organic gardening to cooking gluten free to beginner kayaking--lots of fun family stuff! Or go online here: http://www.metroparks.org/Home.aspx
Also all state parks are FREE admission. Very good hiking and camping opportunities available. Hocking Hills State Park is 2 hrs away and has been called one of the best places to camp in the United States!
Restaurants:
Must try Christopher's in Kettering for great homecooked meals. Organic coffee organic meats gluten free menu available but not at all pretentious. Family friendly and I highly recommend going there for breakfast--it's what they do best!
Also good: Milano's (Italian subs on house baked fresh bread) Dublin Pub Siam Pad Thai
If you find yourself in Cinncinnati (which is close enough for a night out) restaurant Local 127 is absolutely divine! (not family friendly--good date night!)
PCSing: If you're doing a partial DITY there is a CAT scales weigh station on I-75 about 10 miles south of 675. As far as I know there is no longer a scale on ba
Things to do around town:
www.daytonmostmetro.com
www.activedayton.com
Shopping
Morris Home Furnishings
The Mall at Fairfield Commons
Dayton Mall
The Greene